You built the empire. Now claim the love that only great men can keep.
An exclusive mentorship for men who refuse to settle.
Love is the real luxury.
It's no longer about what you have but who you have.
You've built wealth, status and legacy.
Yet behind closed doors, success feels strangely empty.
High-caliber men invest in everything- except their hearts.
That's where I come in.
Because wealth doesn't guarantee love. In fact, for many high-profile men, it makes real love even harder to find.
You don't need another date. You need a deeper connection, to yourself first.
The men I work with don't settle for surface-level attraction.
They seek masculine presence and emotional depth.
They want elite emotional intelligence:
the kind that creates a relationship as strong as their empire.
This isn't dating advice.
This is bespoke love mentorship.
A high-end transformation for men who refuse to settle.
🔹 You attract women of a quality you never thought possible. Women who desire you not for your wealth, but for your presence.
🔹 Your leadership elevates, expanding your impact and influence. You lead in business, in relationships and in life from a place of unshakable confidence.
🔹 Your family life flourishes. You become the man your loved ones truly need: the father, the partner, the leader who creates a lasting legacy.
This is true legacy-level love.
Are you ready to claim it?
Do you recognize this?
❌ You're surrounded by beauty, but what's their agenda? Do they want you or just your lifestyle?
❌ You're winning in business, but something's missing. You don't feel truly alive. No passion, no fire, just an endless restlessness.
❌ You gave up on love. Because everything you were taught about finding it was wrong.
❌ You gave her everything. She still left. Will you ever be enough?
❌ Your marriage looks perfect, but you're torn: stay in a lifeless relationship to keep the peace, or finally go after what you truly want?
Love was never meant to feel this difficult.
What if love was your greatest achievement?
✔️ Your relationship fuels you instead of draining you. No more walking on eggshells. Just deep understanding, effortless laughter and real ease
✔️ You're with a woman who truly chooses you. No games. No hidden agenda. She respects and desires you for who you are.
✔️ You no longer question if you're enough. She values you without you having to prove yourself.
✔️ You feel free, not trapped. She doesn't hold you back. She supports your mission, your drive, your legacy.
✔️ You're in control of your life and love. No more second-guessing. You lead with confidence and unshakable masculine presence.
"A powerful legacy & Lasting love"
Finally attract the love that lasts.
Luxury transformation for those who refuse to settle
How I Catalyze Your Success
You invest in your business, health and wealth, but neglect the one thing that brings true fulfillment: deep, authentic love. That's where I come in.
✅ Deep Energy Work: Break old patterns and shift into your most powerful self.
✅ Masculine Power: Embody your masculine energy and make the vision for your business and life a reality.
✅ Strategic, Proven Framework: A high-level system integrating mindset, energy, relationships and leadership for results that last.
✅ Emotional mastery = Relationship mastery: Love isn't a game to be won. It's a skill to be mastered and most men have never been taught how.
This isn't for everyone. Only a select few men gain access to this level of transformation.
Results from men who took the leap
"I was used to pushing through on my own. Shutting down emotions. Staying in focus mode. But that doesn't work in relationships. Jolien showed me that real strength is understanding emotions, not ignoring them. That shift changed everything."
Elite Client
Private mentorship
"I thought I could figure everything out on my own. Just like in business. Now, I feel a sense of ease and connection I never thought possible. After four months, even my smartwatch showed lower stress levels. The real value is in the man you become, life-changing!"
Elite Client
Private mentorship
"At first, I questioned the investment. But halfway through, I saw the changes: in myself, in how women responded to me., in how I felt every day. The effects don't stop when the program ends. They keep growing. I wish I had done this years ago."
Elite Client
Private mentorship
Your proven path to the love & relationship you deserve
A structured framework designed to deliver real results.
The Irresistible Man program: 3 or 6-month mentorship
Shift your presence, energy and relationships. Whether you choose 3 or 6 months, this program delivers deep transformation at your pace.
3-Month mentorship: The foundation of irresistibility
If you're ready to break old patterns and lay the groundwork for success in your love life, this program provides a powerful reset.
In 3 months, you will:
✔️ Gain unshakable presence: Understand and eliminate the hidden behaviors that push women away.
✔️ Develop magnetic confidence: Rewire how you see yourself and how women perceive you.
✔️ Master attraction & connection: Learn the essentials of high-value relationships and emotional intelligence.
The 3-month option is a strong introduction to this work. You'll experience deep personal growth and a shift in how you show up—but full mastery takes time.
6-Month mentorship: See real, lasting results
For men who want not just internal growth, but tangible results in dating and relationships, the 6-month program ensures lasting change.
In addition to everything in the 3-month program, you will:
✔️ Upgrade your dating & relationship strategy: Move from theory to real-world application, seeing actual shifts in your interactions.
✔️ Deepen your leadership & masculine presence: Step into the next level of attraction, emotional control, and decisiveness.
✔️ Transform your love life in real-time: Get personal feedback and adjustments as you navigate dating, relationships, or strengthening your current partnership.
The 6-month mentorship is for men who are serious about experiencing results not just internally, but in their real-world relationships.
The Legacy Love mentorship: one-year discreet matchmaking & relationship mastery
For men who want the absolute best—this is a fully tailored, high-level journey to finding and securing your ideal partner. It combines deep personal transformation with confidential, exclusive matchmaking to ensure you don't just meet the right partner- you keep her.
What's Included:
✔️ VIP coaching & immersions: Exclusive in-person mentorship designed to refine your presence, energy, and relationship skills.
✔️ Luxury lifestyle integration: Elevate your personal brand and embody authentic success.
✔️ Bespoke relationship strategy: A custom plan aligned with your goals, values, and lifestyle.
✔️ Image & style consulting: Master your appearance, body language, and non-verbal attraction.
✔️ Advanced polarity & intimacy mastery: Cultivate lasting attraction, emotional depth, and a powerful connection based on the principles of tantra.
✔️ Exclusive, discreet headhunting search: A confidential, high-level partner search using my expertise as a former headhunter—ensuring absolute privacy at every step.
✔️ High-end dating profile setup: Professional photoshoots and elite-level profile optimization (optional).
This is the ultimate done-for-you offer, reserved for the few who demand a relationship that aligns with their legacy.
Why This Mentorship is Unlike Anything You've Experienced
Most men have never worked with a feminine mentor and that's exactly what makes this different. I combine deep empathy with sharp strategy, offering a unique presence that is both caring and direct, intuitive and to the point.
✔️ Empathy & non-judgmental listening
✔️ Power & emotional mastery
✔️ No-BS coaching
You don't have to waste years figuring this out. With me, you gain clarity, face your true self and create the deep connection you've always wanted- fast.
FAQ: What clients ask before working with me
1. What makes you the right person to guide me?
With a proven background in finance, HR, and tech startups, I've advised top executives and entrepreneurs. I've been featured in De Tijd and Tijd.tv. As a headhunter for top-tier professionals, I mastered identifying high-value traits and positioning individuals for success.
Beyond business, I've studied Tao, Tantra, sexual polarity, and advanced personal growth techniques, including body-centered work for nervous system regulation.
This holistic, results-driven approach helps my clients achieve deep transformation—mastering leadership, attraction, and emotional balance in every aspect of life.
2. How is this different from therapy or dating coaching?
Unlike therapy, which often focuses on processing the past, and dating coaching, which gives surface-level tactics, this mentorship is about full-spectrum transformation. We work on your energy, mindset, leadership, and (optional) strategic matchmaking to ensure lasting success in love.
3. How is this different from a matchmaking service?
Traditional matchmaking services focus only on introductions. I go beyond that. My one-year mentorship ensures that you're not just meeting high-quality individuals, but that you're fully prepared to attract, connect, and build a lasting relationship with the right one. This is a complete transformation process—not just a list of matches.
My Commitment to You: My goal is to help you find your Final Love within one year (with the 1 year Legacy Love mentorship). If that doesn't happen, I will continue the search until we find you a strong match—ensuring the quality and exclusivity of the (wo)men I introduce to you.
4. I don't have time for long programs. How much of a commitment is this?
This mentorship is designed for, busy, high-performing men who need results without unnecessary fluff. You'll get precise, high-impact coaching that fits into your lifestyle, with a clear structure to ensure transformation without wasting your time.
5. Can this mentorship help if I'm already in a relationship?
Absolutely. You've built a stable relationship, but the passion has faded, you feel disconnected, or you question "Is this it?".
This mentorship offers a neutral, judgment-free space to explore your emotions, doubts and better understand your partner. So you can restore the connection if you choose to.
6. Is this only for heterosexual men?
No. This mentorship is for any man seeking to attract or strengthen a deep, fulfilling relationship.
I work with masculine and feminine energy, which exist in all individuals, regardless of sexual orientation. If you're a man looking for a meaningful connection- whether to find a partner or to improve your current relationship: you are welcome here.
7. How is my privacy protected?
Discretion is a top priority. Every aspect of this mentorship is handled with the highest level of confidentiality. .
- Confidential client selection: I only work with a select group of high-level men, ensuring an exclusive and secure environment.
- Private matchmaking process: All introductions are discreet, and potential partners are carefully vetted for alignment and confidentiality.
- Secure communication: Any discussions, calls, and in-person meetings are handled with complete privacy—nothing is shared without your explicit consent.
Your personal and professional reputation matters, and I ensure that your journey to finding lasting love remains both exclusive and protected.
Exclusive, results-driven & highly selective
This is not for everyone, only a select few men get access to this level of transformation.
This is an investment in yourself, your future, and your legacy.
Ready to transform? Let's talk and see if you qualify.
(No sales pitch—just an honest conversation about whether this program is right for you.)